Safety on Set&Seek

Set&Seek is built so your first date can happen without giving anything away — no address, no phone number, no last name.

The date is on video

Your first meeting happens inside Set&Seek, on camera and microphone, from wherever you feel comfortable. You can leave a date at any moment, and nobody gets your contact details unless you choose to share them.

Block and report

Every profile, chat, and date has a report option. Reports are reviewed and accounts that break the rules are removed. Blocking is instant and permanent from your side.

18+ only

You must be 18 or older to use Set&Seek. We ask for your date of birth at sign-up and remove accounts that misstate their age.

Meeting in person

If you decide to meet after a video date, choose a public place, tell a friend where you're going, and arrange your own transport there and back.

In an emergency

If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first. Then report the account inside Set&Seek so we can act on it.